ties

So I'm thinking this tie for T.
Or this one.

[[images via the tie bar]]

Which one do you think? The smaller dots might match my shoes better, but looks busier on the eyes. So maybe the bigger polka dots? and also, if T wore a polka dot tie, should the best man wear the same tie, or a different one? and if the best man wore a different tie, then what color should it be? I was thinking a solid black tie, but T's afraid the blacks might not match.

What do you guys think?